How it works
Ourpoint Live is an evening in your city with verified people who are also looking to marry. Five minutes each, one person at a time, a question to start you off. You meet a few people properly instead of many people barely.
See the next eveningStep 1
The basics
Your first name, birthday, who you'd like to meet, your partner age range, city and languages.
Step 2
A written interview
About 40 questions, roughly 30 minutes, about how you live, what you want and how you handle disagreement. An AI asks the questions; you write the answers, and you can skip any of them.
Step 3
How you live
Religion, diet, smoking, drinking, marital history and home state, plus up to three non-negotiables. They work both ways, and nobody can search by them.
Step 4
Your card and photos
Three of your interview answers make your card. Add at least two photos and a phone number, which is never shown.
Step 5
Verification by a person
Your government ID is checked against a live selfie by someone on our team, not a bot. ID photos are deleted 30 days after the check. Every member is 21 or over.
Any time before
Book a seat
Pick an evening in your city. Each one has an age band and seats split evenly between women and men. Booking is free. If your side is full, you go on the waitlist.
The day before, and an hour before
A reminder
We email you the day before and again an hour before. The room opens an hour early, so you can settle in.
The evening
Six chats, five minutes each
One person at a time, live, in text. Each chat opens with a question for the two of you, so nobody wonders what to say. You see their first name, age, a line about how they live and the three answers on their card. No photos yet.
After each chat
Yes or no, privately
Decide about each person on your own. Nobody learns who said no.
End of the evening
Mutual yeses are shown
Only when you both said yes. Photos are seen once you're matched.
After a mutual yes
A conversation opens
Either of you can open an ordinary Ourpoint conversation, and accepting is free. If they decline, or don't answer within three days, you get it back. Swap numbers in the conversation whenever you both choose to.
The first evening is in Kochi on Sunday 15 November 2026 at 9pm IST, for ages 25 to 35. More cities will open the same way, one evening at a time.
Joining, verification, your seat and the evening are free. The only thing you pay for is opening a conversation after a mutual yes: ₹199 for one, less in packs. Accepting one is free. See pricing.
An evening in your city where you have six five-minute chats with verified people, one person at a time, all live, in text. Each chat opens with a question for the two of you. Afterwards you privately say yes or no to each person, and only mutual yeses are shown, at the end of the evening.
Verified members booked into the same evening who fit what you both said: who you'd like to meet, partner age ranges and up to three non-negotiables, all both ways. You're never paired with the same person twice, or with anyone you've blocked.
Their first name, age, a line about how they live and the three answers on their card. No photos until it's mutual.
Then say no to everyone. Nobody learns who said no, and a one-sided yes is never shown either.
No. There's no browsing, no search and no feed. You only meet the people you're paired with in an evening.
In your own way and time. Ourpoint is just the two of you: nobody else reads your chats or conversations. When it's time for families to meet, that's yours to arrange.
No. It asks the interview questions once, when you join. Every word in a chat or conversation is yours.
Never automatically, and never in an evening. Contact details can't be sent in a chat: phone numbers, emails and handles are blocked. Once a conversation is open, either of you can offer to swap numbers, and numbers appear only when you both agree.
End the chat whenever you like, or report them. A report ends the chat straight away and a person on our team reviews it.
Kochi, Sunday 15 November 2026, 9pm IST, for ages 25 to 35, with 10 seats each for women and men. More evenings and cities will follow.
Six people worth meeting, in one evening.
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